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Other Mommy and other therapy films, a review of sorts…

There has been a run of successful independent horror films which break the torture porn and slasher model. They are not creature features or monster romps. Instead, there is a dimension of neurotic therapy entwined into the story. It’s said, ‘write what you know.’ And, while it may be impossible to know what it’s like to fly the galaxy or, to ride a dragon. A writer does know the people in their lives and themselves, and often times, the protagonist is an inner self. Whether this is an inner child, or shadow self can depend on the type of characters we follow in the story.

The horror of some modern films comes from such a perspective and the premise wraps accordingly. To ensure the genre of horror, an over reliance on jump scares and the ‘creepy’ element is now elevated as a means of fright. To cheat with a sudden burst of noise and motion, as one may experience in a theme park is used to unsettle and establish a genre trope. The creepy fascination is the subjective unease for the abnormal. In the confirmation of PT Barnum’s belief that humans are interested in ‘freaks’, the creepy dimension establishes that any movement, facial expression or appearance in an abnormal manner is ‘creepy’. Therefore, evil. Or, a threat. Or, scary.

And this element confronts the contradiction of modern inclusivity, one must not laugh or shame the ‘fat’, just as one may not laugh at mentally unwell, or deformed, or the retarded. And, these words are used in an older usage with intent, while in the modern incarnation, for special needs or whatever other current allowable term passes the words conjure much the same, in context of use. Those, who are creepy in these films display unease in their movement, dis regulated emotions, have mutated, or missing body parts, exaggerated, or absent limbs or torsos. Often, they can not help their mind and physical state. They smile with empty eyes. Then, again, Mr Beast and the insincere class of ‘creators’ that ascend for such, use the empty shell approach to entice. So, clearly there is a variation of the fake expression which passes as desired or, unsettling.

Are these horror elements? Or, is it because much of the audience feels unease and discomfort with unusual traits that such now passes for horror?

The recent lambasting of Susan Dell for her appearance, or Kelly Loeffler for her walking manner and longer than average neck. The women, and others, have been turned into memes and used as ‘proof’ that aliens exist, at times by serious people. It is not who, or what these ladies do, rather how they look which has drawn the ire of the terminally online. It’s allowable to use them as abnormal abominations. Susan Dell, has become the lady in red. Though, she is not Kelly LeBrock, at least not from that film’s namesake. Instead, she is more akin to LeBrock after her divorce from Stephen Seagal, when as an abused woman, Hollywood and the mob had no more need for her. She was beaten, used up and, apparently ‘deformed.’ To laugh, tease and hold disdain for the abnormal looking ladies is widely tolerated. Such a mob would have burned them at a stake, or drowned them in a river for their appearance alone. It’s with such a mindset, that ‘creepy’ and abnormal is humorous, and ugly, or scary. Or, is clear evidence that lizard people, alien Satanists walk the Earth.

In, the film Obsession, which I have previously reviewed, the victim is also the ‘monster’, a woman trapped by a narcissistic man’s desire to claim her. To force her to love him. In her individual need for life, and to be free, her inner turmoil is twisted into anguish and violence. A self-harm and lashing out state of misery, pain, a confused mind suppressed by magical powers which strangle her, and in flickers to reveal the true person, the prisoner. Not all prison breaks are passive. Hers was ongoing. For the audience, the victim of the story is her imprisoner, rapist.

The therapy session for the film makers and viewers established the relatable concept of romantic attraction and intimacy. Unrequited love, is a common obsession. An, entitlement. When respectful and from afar, it’s at best endearing. When, elevated, it’s the motive of the stalker or domestic batterer. The film’s male lead, is the worse sort of unaware and selfish protagonist. The flaws of his immorality, is when he experiences blowback. The victim dares to resist, and in doing so, innocent parties suffer. It ruins his life, but destroys hers and others. The film is a morality mirror, one can see what their intuition allows. The film sits like a therapist propositioning such challenges, providing the entitled narcissist with dilemmas to establish a moral footing. Should it exist.

In the other successful entry of modern horror hits, The Backrooms, which again was not so much a horror, and relied on atmosphere and the limited ambience of 1990s camcorder footage or the unreliable architecture, of banality and absurdity. It was a long, and uneventful as far as horror goes, movie. Instead, it was the exploration of a man who ruined his marriage, and now resides in a business which is also his own prison. His ambitions and wishes for creativity and to be another man, manifests the nightmare maze that is The Backrooms. The familiar and mundane melt like a Salvador Dali painting, while adding in elements of 1990s first person shooters and the popular block games of today.

The protagonist’s therapist finds herself inside the maze of his inner self, where her own shadows and traumas seek her out. They manifest and in time, the maze becomes infected with her own mental finger prints. The monster is comical, though it’s a surrealist depiction of the human mind, our regrets and fears. Heroes no longer save others, rather they survive the violence through self-realisation and plot driven diagnosis.

While Obsession and The Backrooms, were successful financially and well received, Other Mommy, seems to have flopped. It’s not a bad film. Though, I was told that it was, ‘one of the scariest films ever.’ It was far from. In fact, it was not scary. I don’t even think it was meant to be. It was told from a child’s view. And, this is the film makers and writers inner child insert. She is an innocent and seemingly well adjusted child, though, her parents wealth, and friend group, is otherwise un-relatable to most of the audience. ‘Write what you know,’ and we see the wealthy depiction of an upbringing of those giving us a story about a child who has invented a fictional friend.

Not, a Dropdead Fred, our film’s little girl needs to play and feel affection from the dark spirit which has taken on the avatar, of her own mother. Her real mother is absent, works a lot, and is having an affair. Her father is present and loving. Both parents love her. They are not, bad, that’s not where the trauma comes from.

The little girl, Bela, who is played by Arabella Olivia Clark, gives a decent performance for a ten-year old. She at times resembles Dakota Fanning from the same age, and one can not help to feel a horror like fear, for the fate of such a young child star when deployed as a performer for the industry that ruins youth. The acting and casting is sound. The problem for the film, and poor reception seems to be that it’s not scary, or really a horror. And, I agree.

The film is more therapy-fantasy, and has all of the dark child film elements found in the 1980s, with Return to Oz, or The Dark Crystal. From a period, and before when story tellers such as Don Bluth or even the Grimm brothers wanted to present dark, and truly scary stories for children, the stakes were high, joy and sadness, fear and excitement shared the screen. This, had elements at time in such a tradition. Though, it is made for teens and adults, now. The gore, are over the top and cast a non-frightful side to death. As one may find in a comedy. It is also done with a slight seriousness at times, however, it does not take it self too serious. It feels like a film which is meant to be fun.

The blend of horror and comedy, is one that Sam Raimi, who also had a fascination for witches and evil female spirits, did well. Other Mommy, is not horror laden enough to be like that, but it does have moments of levity despite the circumstances which is due to the nature of Daddo, her father played by Jay Duplass and Mommy, both of them, played by Jessica Chastian. For our little girl, Bela, who it seems has no friends her own age, has a teen baby sitter who let’s her dress him up and is sensitive to her isolation. She is wrapped by loving and caring people. Including her Grandma Ruth, played by Karen Allen.

It’s with Grandma Ruth, where we receive the exposition, and she becomes Checkov’s grandmother. Her Other Mommy, deceives and placates Bela, she makes promises and is always trying to provide an unreal reality for her. While our sweet grandmother explains that at times people who love you will lie to protect you and that no one can promise you will never be hurt. Other mommy is nice, it’s a fake niceness. To a child, it’s appealing. The smile is wide, the eyes empty. It appeals to the emotionally underdeveloped, see Mr Beast.

To defeat the evil spirit, who wants to take Bela’s heart, to be reborn. It can only do so with Bela’s permission, so she charms and entangles herself into the girls world and satisfies her ego and insecurities and creates a fake depiction of love and relationships. The evil is manipulative and in doing so has cultivated escapist adventures and provides a company which is nothing more than what Bela thinks she needs, or wants.

Recalling what her grandmother told her, Bela is able to tell the difference between her real mother and the other mommy. The evil is only defeated when both parents reveal to her a dark truth, which seems to be known. A semblance of it permeating inside of Bela’s mind, whether she could articulate it or reflect upon it. It was with such disharmony that the evil was able to insert itself into the child’s life, earn her trust. Dado is not her real father. At least not biologically. He stuck around, and loved her with his everything while the biological father was not interested. And, her mother misses her life before she was a mother. She became a mother, with reluctance. She loves Bela but has an inner conflict. It turns out there is no playbook to be a parent. Or, child for that matter. But her parents sincerely love her, despite this challenging revelation of truth.

It challenges her world view. Her mother does love her. Truly, even in her at times absence. And, Dado, has never once not loved her. He has never shown her the distance and rejection assumed to be for a non-biological parent. Despite the presence of the evil spirit and it’s powers, and murderous nature. Her parents fight to protect her, they are not martial beings. They are husband and wife, who love their child. And, in the end, as a family, despite the trauma, regrets and ethereal presence of an ancient evil prevail. They over come. Together.

No drug or therapy sessions could ever bring a family together like defeating an evil spirit.

I feel the movie was misunderstood. As many are upon initial release. It was not bad. Films don’t need to be five hundred million dollar mega projects, or self serious bio-pics about scientists making mass death devices. They can also be small. With a blend of serious and intimate subject matter with elements of laughter. Life is like that. It has it’s faults, contrivances, it’s also mostly from a child’s view so imperfections are allowable. It’s a fantasy film, of a sorts.

I didn’t hate it. And, for 90 minutes, a refreshing length for a modern film, I did not wish for time to pass faster, as I have done with films others have insisted were great. It’s not a great film. Nor is it bad. It’s not a horror movie, though it resides among those on the shelf. I suspect we will see more films of therapy, some will be hits, so long as they hit the established tropes of a genre well. Others will flop, and this, just as Skin Deep was a comedy-therapy film for the writer and film makers, will go mostly forgotten. Tastes are subjective and this movie, like Skin Deep, didn’t leave a bad taste in my mouth, and is as re-watchable despite the flaws, unlike apparently better films. Other viewer’s feel different.

The Royal Navy Submarine Force is No More

The Royal Navy (RN) is sinking below the waves literally and figuratively every year. At the outbreak of war in Iran, the UK could not get a single ship ready to send to the gulf region.

It is time to turn off the lease to their nuclear Trident missiles on the Vanguard SSBN fleet, they are no longer reliable nor capable. While the US is at it, toss the Five Eyes (FVEY) relationship into the rubbish bin too.

Commander Salamander adroitly weighs in:

The Royal Navy’s relative collapse is shocking. Since the mid-1980s, the US Navy’s submarine force has shrunk to 59% of its 1985 level. The Royal Navy’s submarine force has shrunk to 31% of its 1985 level. Today, the Royal Navy should have at least five more submarines in service if they paced the US Navy’s post-Cold War drawdown.

Back to the Perisher course. Here’s the BBC documentary on it from 1985. There were enough people in the course to have a proper dinner.

Now?

Sad.

The legendary “Perisher” course was one of the toughest submarine commander courses in the world. One outcome of the course was to give the individual newly qualified CO the confidence that he could hack it. He had been tested in fire and come through. The other, perhaps less obvious, was the impact on the crew. Every submariner knew how testing the Perisher course was; if their new Captain had completed the course successfully then it gave the crew confidence that they would be safe in his hands and could concentrate on their task and role.

The documentary below aired in 1985 when the British Bolshevik Corporation still had a reputation for quality..

The continuous nuclear submarine deterrent consumes roughly half of all naval/equipment procurement, leaving conventional surface combatants exposed to continuous batch cuts and delivery delays.

CDR Salamander on the RN submarine collapse

The Kyle Anzalone Show guest Larry Johnson: Mother of All Duds?! Can Trump Destroy Pickaxe Mountain?

A rumored Putin Trump Xi summit sounds like diplomatic fireworks, but the bigger story is what it reveals about power and leverage as Ukraine’s position weakens. Larry Johnson joins me to parse the Reuters report, the shifting tone coming out of Washington, and the growing sense that US leaders are preparing to treat Ukraine as a sunk cost. We also react to Trump’s rhetoric about Zelensky, what it signals to Europe, and why messaging can matter as much as money when alliances start to fray.

From there, we get concrete about capacity. Talk is cheap, munitions are not. We dig into the reality of US weapons stockpiles, what shortages mean for sustaining Ukraine, and how that constraint bleeds into decisions about Yemen, Iran, and broader US military readiness. We also unpack Zelensky’s warning about a massive refugee wave into Europe and how that pressure collides with domestic unrest and protest movements already testing European governments.

The final act moves to the Middle East: MOAB headlines, the limits of “big bomb” thinking against hardened sites, and why abandoning the JCPOA created a long term strategy vacuum. We close with the Trump Netanyahu relationship and the blunt question of what happens if the US renews strikes on Iran and Israel ends up in the crosshairs.

If this analysis helps you make sense of fast moving geopolitics, subscribe, share the episode, and leave a review. What part of this trajectory worries you most right now?

Combat is Not a Coeducational Sport

The standard is the olive drab variant of Chesterton’s Fence.

Captain Kristen M. Griest and First Lieutenant Shaye L. Haver made history on August 21, 2015, as the first two women to graduate from Ranger School under incredibly fake conditions. They were part of an initial group of 19 female soldiers who volunteered for the first co-ed class in April 2015.

Griest has been publicly linked to a West Point Tactical Officer role since 2022; Haver’s last clearly reported assignment was with The Old Guard (with a move to CGSC around 2023). Both are still described as serving in the Army.

Both are currently Majors in Infantry Branch.

Nearly all historical graduates are men. Subtracting the ~150–160+ women (starting in 2015) from the sub-99,000 total leaves roughly 98,800+ male graduates since the 1950s. Recent classes still show high attrition (often 50–60%+), with pass rates typically in the 30–45% range depending on the year and cohort.

Shame.

https://www.nationalrgrassociation.com/

The Kyle Anzalone Show guest Connor Echols: Trump Turns on Zelensky as Iran War Threat Grows

Trump is turning up the heat on Ukraine and Zelensky, and the timing is impossible to ignore: voters feel foreign policy in their wallets through gas prices and diesel prices. Kyle sits down with Connor Echols of Responsible Statecraft to parse what’s real policy movement versus loud rhetoric, including Trump’s complaints about U.S. aid and the risk of Washington signaling more pressure on Kyiv than on Moscow. We also dig into a concrete headline with big implications: a U.S. purchase of Russian diesel meant to relieve stress on American fuel markets, and what that says about how the war in Iran and the war in Ukraine collide in U.S. decision-making.

From there, we get brutally practical about capabilities. Patriot missiles, THAAD interceptors, and other high-end munitions have been burned down across multiple theaters, and rebuilding them is not just a budget question. We talk timelines, factory expansion, skilled labor, and supply chain vulnerabilities like rare earth minerals and microelectronics. If the U.S. can’t produce fast enough, every security guarantee becomes a harder promise to keep, and diplomacy starts to look different whether leaders admit it or not.

Then we head to the Middle East: Trump’s relationship with Netanyahu, what Israeli elections can and can’t change, and why the “Netanyahu is the whole problem” story misses how wide the Israeli security consensus really is. We close with the scariest acceleration factor of all: AI-assisted targeting and the temptation to treat machine-generated strike lists as truth, even as civilian risk rises. Subscribe for more deep dives, share this with a friend who follows foreign policy, and leave a review with your take: what should U.S. strategy prioritize right now?

Male, Female… a rant

Men are killing, raping and beating women, still. The media is reporting on it, with eagerness. The subject is scary, there is a panic. With any panic, there is a need for scapegoats. The spread of blame widens, until eventually everything is toxic, needs to be censored or prohibited and monitored. Security, safety, at least the perception and theatre of such gives the dimension of action.

The violence is not new. It’s ancient. It has many reasons but above all, it’s the responsibility of the individual for their own actions. It’s not because of porn, because where it’s absent the sexual violence is far worse for women and children, historically and present. It is not a lack of religious morals, because inside of theocracies it’s abundant from genital mutilation, to sexual servitude. It’s not a lack of government because totalitarian regimes, from autocracies to the tyranny of the proletariat, it is again abundant. In conservative honour societies, such as Budo Japan we saw the most prolific examples, and from liberal democracies, such examples exist, take My Lai.

No, mastermind is behind it, nor film, book, podcaster, or any sinister cabal of chauvinists. The reasons are broad but also an internal state from within many men.

When alcohol prohibition was enforced last century in the United States, one of the main reasons it was imposed was to protect women. Men were coming home drunk, beating, raping and killing their wives, or other females. The drink, was a convenient foil. Allied with the temperance movement it was an act where government was able to show it was concerned and capable of fixing a problem. Prohibition failed. And, the violence and rape never stopped.

Prohibition always fails. And worsens the problem. But, it’s what government does. Takes things away and imposes violence and pre-crimes everybody. Censorship is brutal, it’s the imposition of violence for speaking words or art, or anything deemed morally or socially dangerous. Benevolence and altruism is cited. The problems never really go away. Often they worsen. It criminalises everything. Which in turn often rewards the sinister and cynical.

One of my proudest coaching moments was when I had a lady who had been beaten and sexually assaulted by her ex partner, took back some dignity. He was not meant to contact her. He continued to do so. We practised in my gym basic combatives, she would release an anger. Hitting the bag, shadow boxing, moving her body with co-ordination. She found a self that had been beaten down. We worked on her tools. One day, I gave her a small wooden baseball bat. She would hit the bags with it and practice her motions. It was a symbolic sword for her dignity. A shield for her home. A gift.

One morning, I received a photo from her of a man, naked, curled on the ground. He had come to her house, broke in, tried to assault her. She used the bat. He submitted. She took the photo, a proud memento of justice. Later on that day, the cops arrived. They confiscated the bat. The monopoly took away the only thing that had stopped him. They wanted to make sure nothing came between them and their lack of service. It is a monopoly after all. It has no interest or any real reason to do anything, other than to extort and make sure it is the power. As her abuser lay on the ground crying in the dirt, she had the power. No cop, or government could remove that dignity from her. Even if they did steal her baseball bat.

I digress.

Another lady, came to my gym with a friend of hers, the friend dealt with women in her condition. By condition, I mean those who had been violently raped. Beaten. Hurt. She came to my gym, scared but angry. She watched the training for a little bit before she joined in. She had every right to not trust another man. Especially one who exhibited an ability for violence. It would take a few sessions before she would speak to me in sentences. Over time, her inner rage soared. She realised that knives would be her fangs. We drilled with the steel. She concealed it, and removed the fangs with precision. Repeating the action. She understood that violence comes suddenly. It is up close and fast. She had learned that no matter how loud you screamed, no one would come. And, when the bad man was caught, the cops would protect him.

When she was in her teens, a man had dragged her into a cubicle. Raped, beat and left her. The man had the mental health defence, where professionals ensure he retains the perks of a sane person while relinquishing any responsibility. It also meant he received benefits, a house, and all the other welfare embraces modern of Australia. The man continued to stalk her, he would come to her work. Walk past, smile. Wave. The cops at times would arrive. They escorted him to his public housing. He would return.

One day when he lingered, she walked up to him, it was only when she told him that she would, “cut the smile from his face,” that his smug grin lowered. Despite his mental health credentials, he was aware of her threat, and the need for his own self preservation. His enjoyment of her anguish dissipated as she felt her fang ready for his flesh.

The police arrived to speak with her. She told them why she did it, who he was. Again. They likely wrote it into their note pad. She then told one of them, if the man comes around again. She would stab him. The cop, took her knife. Her fangs were removed. They robbed her of her defence.

Her uncle went to the man’s house, and told him, “if you go near my niece again, I’ll kill you.”

The police visited the uncle. He was a legal firearm owner. And, by threatening someone, while owning guns in Australia. You commit the most heinous of crimes. He faced jail time, and his property was stolen by the cops. The man at least stopped visiting her. He enjoys his benefits and playing video games on his couch with the support workers, the cops who robbed the uncle and her, protect him.

Cops in Australia randomly search peoples bags and bodies for contraband, anything sharp. I think about all the ladies that I have known over the years who carried, a knife, extendable baton, tent pegs, anything to give them a fighting chance. Their talons, or fangs. Now, to be de-fanged and must be all the more dependent on the monopoly. This is a theatre for some to feel safety, but those who have experienced real, terrifying intimate violence, their safety and how they feel is to be disregarded. I wonder if in time, the State will have it’s armed agents confiscate penises to prevent rape.

Michelle Foster, a mother of two, in her middle thirties went to Colonades shopping centre to withdraw money. She was on her way to see her father. Twenty-year old, Jayden Tanee Lowah, attacked her from behind and beat her to death. Her face was left unrecognisable. Jayden had been recently released from prison. He wanted to remain in there, he had everything he wanted inside prison. He was fed, housed, looked after, protected. Once he was released, he went to the local police station, asking to go back inside, even commenting that he would do something to get himself inside.

Lowah loitered around the centre during the evening and decided that Michelle, a mother, an innocent, would be his means of getting what he wanted. He brutally took her life. He was not found guilty of murder, the mental health shield protected him. He said something about, living in a simulation. He now remains protected and taken care of in a mental health facility. Michelle’s family gets no justice, neither does the community, many of us would make sure that Lowah would not be a threat, ever again. The monopoly that failed to protect Michelle, now protects her murderer. I failed Michelle, finding Lowah’s location was difficult and he was under constant police protection.

In an attempt to combat the ‘manosphere’ content, disingenuous performance males are being platformed to represent ‘masculinity’. They say all the correct things, and don millennial beards or trend ink, or whatever is needed to LARP as a man. What they say, only finds an audience within the community of those who push such males. And, they have little in common with men. The assumption being that by pushing such “positive” males, it will overwhelm the “toxic” influencers.

Good men are ignored and exist inside of a quagmire of both disdain, and convenient usefulness. The collectivist language of man versus woman, removes the individual. It layers over all of us, and people speak over one another. Blaming entire groups, hating, and in many cases, rightfully fearing, entire sexes. The problem, is mutated. It becomes political and turns into policy, and the weakest minds, and softest hands in the room, those who would protect and make excuses for Lowah, and the other males mentioned above, suddenly want to blame other men, and twist it into being a problem of content.

By propping up false depictions of positive masculinity, it pushes away actually positive male role models. The packaging of Luke Bateman, for example as a ‘good man’ ignores that his redemption is the bare minimum. He was addicted to gambling, excessively at the expense of his partners, and loved ones. He over used drugs and alcohol, and allegations of abuse to his partners. Bateman blames his actions and conduct on the “gambling agencies”, those of which he worked for and, one can only imagine if he was not such a loser with his gambling, he may be an advocate for them. His lack of self control and reckless behaviour is not something he owns, rather he now pushes for the banning of all things. The culprits of his conduct, is not him. And, his arc is that he found books, reading. Now, a celebrity in the bookslop realm, he reviews other peoples books. This is his arc, his heroic journey.

The men who did none of those things, who have been consistent and disciplined remain ignored, The redemption arc, the born again, the cleansing approval of the gatekeepers is what is required for a role model. They need to find god, embrace a mental health diagnosis or, read romance fantasy books. And, should males find this sort of person as repulsive, then they are problematic. What a person like Bateman reveals is that abuse and addictions, and harm to women is allowed so long as one has an approved redemption. Never be accountable, always blame. Then, what is blamed will be pursued, and any who have, or do the thing blamed, but do not have problems or victims, then again, they are the problem. This is not an attack on Bateman, or the social media creatures like him. Just don’t assume that such algorithm Beasts will improve any problem, or resonate with men.

The adulation for narcissism as social media creatures, is perhaps appropriate that Bateman’s last name is as it is.

Bateman has a book deal, for books he has not written. Lowah is in a place where he wanted to be, the other men mentioned, are supported and protected. Yet, we have a monopoly that brow beats and pre-crimes males, one that disarms women and a society which elevates certain males, and ignores positive men. One where it’s allowable to attack a collective class for the actions of some from within, to the point that young boys are now viewed as super predators. Akin, to Hilary Clinton’s definition of black males, when it was in vogue to target them, as a deadly class during the late 1980’s, early 1990s. And as in that period, moral panics are rampant, except it’s not from conservative religious groups where the call for more government is coming. It’s coming from the ‘rationale’ left which has rejected class struggle, and embraced the bourgeois privileges and now fixates on abstracts and demographics of values. Gender wars, mental health, welfare for all things, hatred of the worker. The moral panic comes from them.

The recent allegations levelled against Australian Greens senator Jordon Steele-John, reveals the nature of identity politics and the mask it is obsessed with. Since 2017 to the present numerous women have levelled complaints against the senator, who despite his disability and other anti-proletariat left wing credentials, reveals the nature of non-toxic privileges of toxicity. Because of the importance of his identity credentials, his indiscretions were hidden. Just as the right does with it’s politically useful assets, and religious groups have done with the important spiritual guides of their theologies, the left also indulges in with their own. Outwardly a man like Steele-John would be elevated as a positive figure because as a government dependent person, with privilege markers in place, he ticks boxes that elevate his avatar of identity, regardless of any character as a person.

Character is unimportant now. It’s the anti-character age. It is a period of performance and credentials, however these are so defined. An individuals reputation and body of experience is meaningless for those who require screen depictions to define their world. The duality of toxicity arises, both insincere, one is framed as strong and manly, though hates women. Dresses rich and is in every distinction androgynous. The other is seen as positive and a role model, though is weak and has lead lives of recklessness, but in their identity or tears, they are born again, or important entities, also often androgynous. Both are avatars. Real men tend to reject all forms of these creatures but the terminally online, and politically motivated are obsessed with both. Meanwhile women are killed, sometimes the killers are toxic, or they are victims of the diagnosed. Women are raped and assaulted, and sometimes the rapist is an ally, a disabled feminist, or, they are misogynistic pigs.

Or, they smile and charm with handsome features, as Ted Bundy understood to work for him. Or, they are part of a group, a demographic that is protected because to prosecute or mention them reveals a contentious issue of politics. Or, they are in uniform, or profess to serve God, or, they are so very rich, or they are leaders, as individual men, how they are treated, protected is based on their credentials, demographic, bank balance, ideological worth. The stench of their seed is all the same. But, only to their victims. To the outsiders, that’s a meaningless consideration.

The real men who are good do exist, they are often not blathering on podcasts, or surfing the algorithms of outrage or activism. They are ignored and diminished and tarred by the weaknesses, and pathetic unmasculine displays of the digital arch types, who have been imposed upon them, not by their own choice by others who either want to blame them for, or expect them to aspire to be. It is in the ignoring of such men, that problems have arisen. This comes from among the ranks of males themselves who now seek out such performers and social media beasts, or feel obliged to self-victimise. Many males, have in fact rejected positive masculinity. They escape it. And, it turns out, many women seek it, crave it. Despite the narratives. It is a complex world, full of dimensions and nuanced perspectives.

Individuals, all nuanced and complicated. The limitations of social media and the dependency structure of most modern societies rewards a certain fragility and viciousness. The role models do exist, they don’t seek the mantle. They don’t pose with rental super cars or ride their wheel chair into the towers of power, they are all around you. They are not the enemy and despite the memes, don’t see you as the enemy either. And as a man, believe me, if a particular entity got out of the way, certain people would be reduced to liquid pulp. And, women don’t need men to protect them either. So stop de-fanging them.

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